After he got down on one knee, life became brighter, more exciting and (with wedding plans brewing) a little more frantic. Okay, maybe more than just a little. Whether it will be a big affair or a small, intimate gathering, a buzz has started growing around your special day. After all, getting married is an overwhelming, exhilarating, momentous time and, truthfully, the celebration isn’t meant for just two.
Consider spreading the cheer by popping a question of your own: Will you be my bridesmaid?
You’re going to need all the help you can get and your friends are already brimming with excitement. So give them a taste of the proposal thrill and have some fun, too.
Step 1: Plan a date with the girls
It can be a series of one-on-one proposals, or you can invite everyone together for a girls’ night out. A meal at a restaurant or café is a good choice. There are a lot of discussions to be had, so pick a cozy place where you can all hang out and enjoy each other’s company.
Step 2: Pick a memento
Will you go the traditional route by presenting a ring? Or, would you like something more versatile? Matching jewelry is beautiful choice because then your girls will able to wear it on the special day. Whatever you choose, make it both a pre-wedding souvenir and gift of your friendship.
Step 3: Write a note
In this digital age, pen and paper are more charming than ever before. So put your proposal in writing. Pick a cute saying, keep it straight forward or write a meaningful letter. Just make one thing clear; you want them by your side while you’re dressed in white.
Step 4: Drop to one knee, metaphorically or literally
Hone your presentation, wrap it all up with a cute bow or stick your note in a confetti-filled balloon (meant to be popped, of course). Whether you’re flashy, a little goofy or poised, you’ll set the mood for the many festivities to come. Be it dress shopping, bridal shower planning or wild dancing at your bachelorette party, these girls will be by your side long after you say “I do.”
